Q: im gay and i do feel different from a lot of other people. so i guess i do feel queer.

well i fall for women at times but i still benefit from the priviliges of being cis.


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Q: I hope you understand that queer has to do with gender/sexuality and it's not appropriate to just be like "oh im kinda different so i feel like queer"

yeah ofc i know what queer is. but still, there is visibly queer bodies (like bodies that ppl can put into the gender binaries or when people feel they get a gender tied to them they cant relate to) that on a daily basis have to struggle with this. then there is ppl like me that, like. im a queer feminist. i date what ever gender of the person i fall in love with happens to have. but i wouldn’t say i on a daily basis feel discriminated because of my body.


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Q: gender queer doesn't have a "look" but i imagine you mean people who dress specifically feminine or masculine, but may not be a cisfemale or cismale. also do you ever feel weird being a white woman focusing her art on minorities? like doesnt that seem a little creepy or fetishy? im sure you have good intentions and i dont mean to offend.

it doesn’t have one look, it has a million looks. but say that i would feel gender queer. so i wouldn’t feel like a female. but i would dress the way i do, benefit from really looking like a cis female and have no feeling i would want to look differently (like if i would feel to scared of looking differently due to ideas of gender etc) then i think it’s a bit like, u know i would still benefit from so many priviliged from looking extremly cis etc etc etc.

when it comes to being a white woman etc. well ofc i think about it alot. i wouldnt say i am _focusing_ on minorities though. i try to portrait people the same regardless their bodies. in that way im trying to antifocus on it kind of. cuz i think every body is pretty and can fit into my aesthetics. and that’s just what i wish beauty to be, something where everyone can be.

but if i dont tell people that all bodies are welcome usually just the white thin young ones gets in touch w me cuz they are used to thinking they are objects of desire and should be in front of the camera. where other people think they would just get rejected.
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Q: would u say i look queer

no not really but i mean. i think if one strongly feels it in their everyday life then id say one is visibly queer. like i dont want to tell ppl if they feel this u kno.


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